Friday, April 12, 2013

Finally An Update! Sorry It's Been SO Dang Long!

April 8, 2013

General conference was AWESOME.  I love hearing the Apostles speak to us.

Two wonderful points I gathered from conference:

1)  Families are important.  Society is putting less and less emphasis on the family and it is our job to keep families together.  The best way to keep our families together is through- telling others we love them; having family home evenings; having kneeling family prayer;  reading scriptures as a family;  turning off electronics and spending real, meaningful time with eachother; being honest and transparent with others-we need to trust one another!; smiling and helping out; asking others how we can serve them.  When we do these things in our families, there are three results.  Blessings, blessings, blessings.

2)  The Atonement enables us, and it enables us NOW.  We don't have to wait to enjoy the peace and hope which comes from Christ.  It is because of His Atonement, His pains, His death that we can improve the quality of our lives.  We can have forgiveness now.  The Bible shares the story of the Palsy man whose friends carried him on a stretcher and bought him to Christ.  Christ, who was surrounded by lawyers and Pharisees, reacts initially by telling the Palsy man that he is forgiven.  The lawyers and pharisees question in their minds Christ's ability to forgive.  Christ, the Son of Man, interprets their thoughts and asks, "is it easier to say, Thy sins be forgiven thee, or to say, arise and walk,"  at which point the man stands up and walks.  This instance shows us two of Christ's roles.  Christ 1) forgives us and 2) heals.  We can be forgiven now, today.  We should not wait and expect to be forgiven after it is too late.

We had a tremendous week this week.  We taught a lesson to some of our English class students.  They have a pretty big family, something like 9 people.  They fed us dinner, which was whole shrimp (we had to peel them), salad with fish sauce, some sort of clam or oyster thing (in the picture), and fried squash.  I didn't know I could eat shrimp, especially when it looked back at me and when I had to pull the head and legs off before I ate it.  And when I had to wipe the poop out of it with my fingers before I ate it.

Everything this week was great, though!  Love you all!





Elder Steele



April 1, 2013

The title is just to throw you off.  Happy April Fool's day.  Tell Kate Hulet Happy Birthday for me! :)
We had a great week this last week.  The Branch had a social on Friday, which the missionaries set up like always.  The little children did an Easter Egg hunt in the church.  The picture is of me at the social with one of the most adorable little Vietnamese girls ever.  She's 5.  She kept trying to play tag with all the elders.  She loved the easter egg hunt, too.  The social was a success.
Yesterday we had Easter.  We didn't have any snow, but it was still pretty good.  You can really see the focus of Easter as a missionary.  All of the kids at church were eating candy and playing with little toys and trinkets.  All the Elders and adults were listening to the talks and taking notes.  The Atonement allows us to overcome our weaknesses. The Savior enables us to become better.  He has provided us that we can live with our families for eternity.  What a blessing.  He is not here, for He has risen.  :)
Love you all!


Elder Steele



March 25, 2013

This last week was really great.  I'm having a blast down here!  I hope and pray everything is great in New York and Utah.  :)

Happy Easter!

Monday- we played Uno at the church and then went to Rubio's, an over-priced Mexican restaurant.  It was pretty tasty.  Still overpriced.

Tuesday- We had some meetings and then biked around Westminster all day.  We went in for dinner and just about died because we were SO tired!  Thank goodness for granola/protein bars.  They're good for energy.  It was a lot of fun.  My watch tan line is coming in great haha.  It's so sunny and bright here.  I can't complain, though.  No snow.

Wednesday- Citizenship class.  We taught some less-active members.  At one apartment place, we locked our bikes outside and went in to talk to some members.  An old Viet guy advised us that (in Viet) "the Mexicans are gonna steal your bikes".  

Thursday- District meeting, English class.  A typical thursday.  One of the vocab words was "Leap", so we showed the students how to play Leapfrog, by hopping over each other.  It was a blast.  Four of "the teachers" (the Elders), myself included, bought very cheap clear frame glasses which we wear only for English class.  It's a blast.  Mostly I've found that class is a time to talk to students (hopefully about the gospel) and also to make jokes and help the students see how happy we are.

We had a great weekend, too.  We found some new investigators.  Things are really great.  The Lord is hastening His work.  Love you all!



Elder Steele
2500 N. Bristol St.
Santa Ana, CA 92706

P.S. I had some crazy dreams this week.
They included: 0 Me talking to kids backstage at Pageant... In Vietnamese.
0 A Korean man handing me a baby the size of a quarter.  I baby sat it for a while and then dropped it.  It slithered away like a lizard.
There were some other ones, but I don't remember now. Sorry.  Anyway, love you!  Happy Easter!

:)



March 18, 2013

Hey family!
It's been a great week.  We have been really busy all weekend.  We had an Asian Zone Meeting on Friday with President at the mission home.  We discussed some of the things we do to find and things we can do to improve.  We're getting a new elder in May, by the way!  That will put the Viet district up to 7, and another Elder will probably go English.  Saturday was cleaning the church, setting up translation headsets, teaching english class and it was also Ryan's baptism in my last area.  Elder Leonard and I got to go back for that.  Getting the baptism set up was a bit of a wreck, but eventually worked out.  Ryan and his grandpa thought we would have the baptism at a different building...  so we started half an hour late.  The Viet program had a baptism yesterday, too.  Yesterday morning was stake conference.  They focused on strengthening the family and how it would strengthen the Stake.  There was a General authority there (Brad Foster) and President Bowen spoke, too.  We set up the translation headsets on Saturday, and found out on sunday that we didn't have enough.  I was allowed the "privilege" of sitting in the back of the gym behind any Viets that didn't have a headset to translate the meeting for them. Myself and Elder Truong translated for about an hour of the meeting.  Elder Truong said I translated too loud, so he let me do most of it.  It was pretty challenging, but it was a good opportunity for me to do some Vietnamese self-evaluation.  It was hard for me to describe President Bowen's description of linking horses together.  He talked about how one horse can pull 8.000 lbs.  Two horses yoked together can pull 24.000 lbs.  When the two horses yoked together are trained together, they can pull 30.000 lbs.  I didn't know a few words in there, for example describing how two horses are yoked together.  And I don't know the word for "pound"... I told them it was Kilo's, because Kilogram in Vietnamese is "Ki Lo" .  You don't have to translate exactly, just summarize the important details.  Nghia's baptism went really well. 4 investigators from the Viet program showed up.  President has been stressing inviting as many people as we can to attend baptisms, because they can feel the spirit so strong.
In other news, I can now e-mail friends.  Everything is great here.  We are staying safe on our bikes.  We cleaned out our apartment this morning, so now it's really clean.  Mostly I cleaned it and my companion fumbled around trying to figure out the Rubik's cube.  I'm in the process of teaching him how to solve it.  Things are great, though. 
Love you all!
Top to bottom.
Nghia's baptism.  The member is Sean.  He's awesome.
After Nghia's baptism.  Most of the Viet's there are investigators.
Ryan after his baptism.
Viets have trouble saying "Thank" haha.  That's Elder Leonard.








Elder Steele



March 11, 2013

So, I got transferred last week, a week early.  We woke up at 5:00 and
drove to the mission home to meet president there at 7:00 am.  Elder
Hoch had to go home to get surgery done on his knee.  He had been in a
brace and crutches for a few weeks.  Turns out he tore his ACL and his
meniscus in two different areas.  We have a new area in the Vietnamese
program now, Vietnamese West.  I am serving there with Elder Truong,
the native vietnamese elder.  We are on Bicycles!  No more car for me
for a little while!  I think part of the reason I went English was to
get me acquainted with biking around.  When you're on a bike you feel
more healthy and awake.  It makes you synchronize with the work.  We
will talk to everyone we see.  It will be a great blessing.

In my reading, I have NOT yet finished the Book of Mormon, but I did
move on to the New Testament.  I'm focusing on the Savior's life.  As
I learn about Him, my faith in Him increases.  Studying the life of
the Savior makes me want to be a better person.  I love it.

The mission will be changing.  We are losing the Chinese Elders, who
will be in the new mission.  They are a bunch of great missionaries,
and I will miss them.  We will still see them, probably, because we
are still supposed to be able to go into the Irvine Mission.  I can't
complain.

Everything has been great here.  The weather is BEAUTIFUL, but I wake
up freezing every morning.  Every apartment is equipped with a few
small in-wall heaters, though, so I do my exercises next to them every
morning.

Congrats to Savannah!  Hopefully everything goes well for you!  I can
send you a list of Vietnamese names if you are thinking of naming
him/her a Vietnamese name.

Love you all!  You're so great and I love hearing from you!




Elder Steele



February 25, 2013

On wednesday I ran over some small thorns in the grass.  I got two
flat tires.  We were given a ride home and, being the eagle scouts we
are, had a backup backup bike because the backup was already in use.
The next day we went to the bike store and bought tubes.  I switched
out one of the tubes and used an old tube for the rear tire.  We went
to the gas station to fill the tires up, where the rear tire filled up
and then popped.  Inner tubes make a very loud noise when they pop. We
were pretty surprised when this happened. I replaced the popped tube
with the new tube and we continued. We only spent a few hours making
sure the bikes were in good shape and running smooth.  On friday
night, though, I got another flat tire.  I rode through an
intersection and stopped on the other side so I could walk the bike.
Elder Hoch didn't see that I stopped and ran right into the back of
me.  He jumped off of his bike to avoid a bigger collision, but as he
landed, his right leg planted and his body shifted.  He couldn't get
up.  We called the Zone Leaders and they helped us get home.  We went
to the urgent care center on saturday, and spent about 5 hours trying
to get things figured out. When we left, Elder Hoch had had an x-ray
and was given a brace and some crutches.  We still need to arrange an
MRI for him during this week.  The doctors think he injured his MCL or
ACL.  While in the waiting room, Toy Story (the first one) was on, and
it was a "tender mercy" to be able to hear it playing in the
background.  It was pretty fun.  A lot of the jokes in Toy Story
seemed funnier now that I've been away from movies for so long.  Our
bikes are out of commission for a while because we were just given a
temporary car earlier this morning.  We were a little upset with all
of the bike problems and we're glad we now have a car.

They made an announcement a few days ago about 58 new missions being
created in the world... 3 of those missions are in southern
California, and one of them will steal a lot of the Anaheim mission.
We will be shrunk down to an even smaller size.  I don't think it
matters for the Viet elders, though, because we have different
boundaries.  It is exciting that the Cooks will be mission presidents.
 Spencer should touch up on his Spanish.

Other than that, we did some service this last week.  We moved a young
family into the ward, unexpectedly.  They live in our apartment
complex and we were going to offer help, but they asked us first.  We
didn't know they were members.  We also planted a lemon tree and
transplanted an orange tree for a member.  They were grateful and took
us out to a delicious burger joint.

I read all of Matthew this last week.  It's a pretty great book.  I
like the parable of the workers in the vineyard.  Those who started
work at 1 o'clock were promised a penny pay.  Those who started at 11
were also promised a penny pay, but worked much less. Those that began
at 1 were upset and chastised the vineyard owner.  He gave them what
he promised.  It is never too late for us to get to work and start
doing what's right.  Heavenly Father, because he loves us, will bless
us all just the same.

Love you all!

Elder Steele



February 20, 2013

The weather here is beautiful.  It is a little chilly, but it could
totally be worse. I can't complain.  The mountains in the north are
covered in snow, and they are absolutely gorgeous.  I will send you
some pictures of what we did this last p-day, including a drive
through the zone... Two areas over in our zone is the Newport Beach
area.  Everyone and their mother owns an eight-figure priced home.
I'm in the library right now overlooking the Pacific Ocean.  I will
send some pictures shortly, but man, this is really gorgeous.

Happy Belated birthday to grandma!  I love you, Grandma!

First things first.  A pair of elders out here had a teaching
appointment cancelled because their neighbor Kobe Bryant (pro
Basketball player) was visiting.  Another companionship is teaching a
former Green Bay Packers player.  His fellowshippers include two
former BYU players Austin Collie and Dennis Pitta.

Last week was the week  of the broken bikes.  Both tires on my
companion's bikes went flat on two separate days.  We replaced the
first flat with a new tube.  On our way to fill the tire up with air,
we noticed the rear tire was flat, also.  Being the eagle scouts we
are... we had a spare bike handy.  We rode to the local bike shop and
picked up a new bike tube and a patch kit.  The nut which held on the
rear tire stripped entirely and would not come off.  Bummer.  On the
way back from the bike shop, though, we stopped at  Cafe Rio for
lunch.  There are two Cafe Rio locations in the mission.  I was very
much reminded of being at school in Provo while eating a Barbacoa
Salad and overhearing Coldplay's "Paradise" on the radio.  It really
took me back.  Don't worry, though.  We're on focus.

Valentine's day was our zone conference.  The AP's and President
focused on finding.  We have a real problem talking to people here and
finding those who will listen to us.  Everyone seems to have an
agenda.  They all have something to do, someone to see, somewhere to
be.  The Zone conference was very motivating, though, and we're still
determined to keep finding.

This last monday was p-day.  We went to a driving range.  Dad wouldn't
be too happy with me because I am terrible at golf.  I blame my
height.  Almost every time I swung at a ball, the club missed the ball
short by a few inches.  Put plainly, golf isn't for me.  We played a
little basketball.  I still can't dunk a full-sized basketball, but I
can dunk a mini ball on a regular hoop.  I jammed my left index
finger, and it's still very blue and brown.  It is not broken.  We
also played a two-hour dodgeball game.  No one won, but it was still
very fun.

I saw a van with attached trailer, both with stickers which said
"Yuuup!"  I think it may have been the storage wars guys.  They do
some stuff in Orange County, right?

Monday night we went to dinner with a member.  His wife wasn't feeling
well, so he himself took us out to eat.  We went to a place called
Burrissimo's.  It's like Chipotle (like Moe's) but they stuff their
burrito's with Italian food.  The 29-year-old member who took us out
has his own business.  He is pretty successful.  Our discussion
wrapped in and out of missionary work, talking about his mission
experiences, his friend's mission experiences, and both of their
after-mission lives.  His friend, a professional skateboarder, on
several occasions decided to hitchhike across the U.S. "just for the
experiences".  He set a world record by skateboarding almost non-stop
across the U.S. with his friend.  The business and the "just for the
experiences" got me thinking about how much life there is to live and
how much we are capable of doing.  I think I'm going to learn to play
the piano when I get back, and maybe bike across a few states or
something a little radical like that.  People in California live
differently, and while there's a LOT not to take from here, there
still is a little that I can learn.  I was reminded on the bike ride
home how we need to keep our lives in check still.  I was
contemplating the different things I'd one day like to do (travel,
etc.).  I really was pretty lost in thought, and I didn't realize
where I was going, but I stopped at a corner to make sure we were
heading the right way.  The big white-and-red "Yield" sign on the
corner caught me off guard.  I might be better off doing what I'm
doing right now as a missionary and "yield to the enticings of the
Holy Spirit" and wait to do those other fun things.

Love you all!  Have a great week.  I hope my e-mails aren't TOO boring
for you all to read!  Enjoy where you are and what you're doing.





Elder Steele



February 11, 2013

There was supposed to be a big storm in the North East this last week.
 If it hasn't hit yet, keep your eyes peeled.  Don't let Hunter drive
in the snow...

Last Monday we had a dinner appointment at a member's home.  He and
his son had served in Brasil.  The son was called to Brasilia, but the
mission split, and he was one of two elders to go to the other
mission.  I don't remember the name of the new mission, but he was
there from 03-05 I think.  His last name was Powers.  Maybe Matt knows
him.  I didn't ask him about an Elder Forrest/Steele.

Both last tuesday and wednesday were very full days.  On Tuesday we
did some additional weekly planning to get myself situated with the
people and boundaries in this area.  We met some members, tried to
visit some less-actives, and tried to visit some potential
investigators, all but the members to no avail.  We had a delicious
Orange Chicken dinner prepared by some members.  The zone leaders
stopped in to check on my companion because he torqued his knee, and
we chatted for a few minutes.  They were asking about me being in the
program and we decided that if there ever was a time for all of us to
focus on the work more or to find more, teach more, and baptize more,
this was the transfer and time to do that.  Our Zone Leaders were
really excited about that and we now remind each other whenever we
meet that, "This is the transfer!".   This is the time to do work!

The weather here has been a little chilly lately.  If we leave the
apartment in the morning, we can see our breath.  Biking after 6 PM is
always a task done bundled up in sweaters and wind-breakers.  I'm glad
we have jackets!

The ward mission leader is probably the ward member that the
missionaries work with the most.  Ours is hilarious.  He has a
moustache.  He's got two little boys and a third on the way.  His
enthusiasm for the work is the best.  I think he's is a combination of
Z. Hulet, C. Schaefer and J. Paige.  He's way funny.

We've been biking around everywhere.  Nothing has been stolen.  We are
all staying safe. :)  One of the other elders in our zone described
his companionship as "rickety, y'know like one of those bridges across
a huge chasm."  I'm glad I don't have to say that.  Elder Hoch is
awesome.  He's obedient and a hard worker, and that's what every
missionary should be.

Love you all--



Elder Steele



February 5, 2013

A brand new... area!  I have been transferred.  I'm not in the
Vietnamese program any longer.  This is a big change for me, and it
came as a huge surprise on Saturday night.  I am now serving in the
College Park area in Costa Mesa, CA.  I have an American, English
speaking companion.  He has been out in the field longer than me by a
few weeks, but entered the MTC after me.  Transfers were crazy
yesterday, so we are e-mailing today.  I will not have to buy a
bicycle because they have one for me to borrow.  The helmet fits well,
and I am already accomodated.  The members even fed us dinner last
night.  Things are looking up for this transfer.

All of the Vietnamese elders were full of anticipation last week
because the two elders who had gone english speaking were preparing to
come back into the program all trained and ready to go.  To our
surprise, President Bowen still had different intentions with the
program.  I am the only elder who left, and the other two elders which
had left returned to the program.  This is a five-week program and it
is anticipated that I will only speak English for these five weeks.  I
am both excited and nervous.  I have forgotten a lot of English
already, and now I will forget a lot of my Vietnamese.  Oh well.  I
believe the Lord has something in store for the people in this area
and I will be a tool in His hand to find those whom He has prepared.
Some of the Vietnamese Elders see this as a detriment to the program
and to the missionary work.  As long as they are working their hardest
and as long as I'm trying my hardest, the work will go on independent
of the number of Elders in either program.

The mission is preparing to receive around 90 new missionaries in the
next 17 weeks.  Each English ward will be equipped with two sets of
missionaries.  The growth will be tremendous.

I enjoyed everyone's account of Alex and Leila's wedding.  We are
blessed to have his example in our family.  I am really proud of them.
 I can imagine how beatiful it was to witness their wedding.  Thank
you for sharing that with me.

We heard about the Super Bowl.  I guess English Elders care about that
stuff.  It is a completely different world out here.  Member work will
be so much different.  Contacting and finding will also be so much
different.  I am excited for the challenges to come.  I realize how
blessed I have been in the Vietnamese program to come into a program
which supports and maintains exact obedience.  I'm glad I learned how
to work hard and work effectively from the start of my mission.  This
will make biking from appointment to appointment so much easier.  I
will probably burn so of the fat on me and maybe even gain a little
muscle weight.

My new companion is from Utah.  He attended Snow college, but I don't
think he knows Nelsen, Colin or Brian (from Pittsford).  He has spoken
English all his mission.  We get along well, and will have an awesome
companionship.

Love you all!

Elder Steele



January 28, 2013

We had a pretty great week last week.  Things went well.  I think the
most success I had was on Friday when I turned 20.  I'm THAT much
closer to being older than Rosie.  Like Hunter used to say, "When I'm
older than you, I'm gonna be bigger than you!"  (He still hasn't made
it yet.)

The weather is improving.  I think the bulk of "winter" here is over.
We had a few days that were overcast and rainy, but today it is once
again nice and clear.  It was a little nippy this morning (45 degrees
Fahrenheit), but it's now in the 60's.  It doesn't get too much
colder.

Our investigators are great!  We have two right now, but they are sooo
awesome.  Tri is a twin.  He has been meeting with us for about a
month already.  We have "class" with him every week and in the past
week he attended our monday p-day activities with his twin.  He speaks
English very well.  Our other investigator is Linh.  She is 27.  She
lived in Vietnam until she came here 2 months ago.  Her story is
something like, "life got too repetitive and boring, so I started
learning English and moved to America."   It's pretty crazy.  But,
there must be some sort of rationalization to it, so if I ever decide
to just up and move to Vietnam for a few months I'll feel completely
justified.  It would never be a permanent stay, though.  We taught her
a lesson with one of the white members of the branch.  Like with most
people we meet, we shared the simple message of the Restoration.  God
loves us; he blesses us when we obey him; God gave people direction in
old times through prophets;  God took His Gospel off the earth when
people were wicked and it has happened several times;  Jesus Christ
came down and taught the Gospel; He and His 12 Apostles were killed;
people tried to find the truth, but couldn't;  Joseph Smith read in
James 1:5 "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God who giveth to
all men liberally and upbraideth not";  Joseph asked in Faith and was
visited by God the Father and His Son;  Christ's church was restored
to the earth.  K.  So it's not that simple and it's not that short,
but it was great.  At the end of the lesson, she said (in Vietnamese),
"I have one more concern.  Do Mormon men have many wives?"  We got to
explain to her all about polygamy and clear up all concerns that she
had.  The member added, "One wife is more than enough."  haha.

The Comp is great.  We are pretty much best friends now.  We always
joke with each other and he is really funny.  It's good because even
though we're pretty different, we've learned to get along.

Thursday was Elder Trương's birthday (Anh Cả Ninh).  The two Viet
elders who are now Zone Leaders came up to celebrate with us for our
dinner hour.  We surprised him with a little party.  He had never had
a birthday party before!  It was so fun.  We had balloons all around
our office, and he found an x-acto knife and popped all the balloons
in a very asian-ninja-like fashion.  It was a blast.  We treated him
to some boba and then had class.  On Friday, a member took us out to
dinner to a crazy fun boba place in town.  I plan on bringing my
friends there if I ever make it back here.

Well, things are great here.  Thanks for the love and support from
back home!  Remember to feel free to send pictures through e-mail, or
even short videos of the family.  Jon likes to send me some every week
of his snow-shoeing and mechanical bull-riding adventures.

They made me a cake.  On top, written in sprinkles is my Vietnamese
name, Hải.  In case you were wondering, the cake was delicious.
Chocolate with chocolate frosting.



Love you!  
Elder Steele



January 14, 2013

Hey family!  Things are pretty great here.  There is a man at
McDonald's with a BYU sweatshirt on!  Go Cougars!

Jonathan sent me some pictures and it looks like he is having a blast
at school.  Liz sent me some pictures and it looks like everything
went smooth with Harrison.

I hope Sarah had a great birthday.

Last week included a lot of preparation.  I feel like the Vietnamese
mission focuses so much on preparing for others' (later missionaries')
success with our English class.  We spent time preparing a flyer to
hand out at the Chinese new year.  We made something simple and
creative.  It looks like a Vietnamese Ly Xi, which is a small envelope
containing money that is handed out for good luck at the Lunar New
Year festival.  It should draw attention.  A lot of the things I have
learned here so far are simple skills relating to owning and running a
business.  This ranges from tracking finances, learning how to market
a "product" using little to no money, constantly working, etc.  The
work here is different than I had imagine,but, we are still sharing
about the Gospel at any chance we get.  The business aspects of the
work here need to get done, and the other Elders don't have experience
so we are often working logistics and little administrative tasks.

On Wednesday we set up an appointment with our investigator Tri.  When
we got there, he asked us why we were dressed up, and he thought we
were "just gonna hang out" because we intended to go grab pizza with
him after.  We ended up getting pizza and got to talk to him and get
to know him better.  He is so awesome.  We drove around for forever
looking for the Little Caesar's and ended up in crazy Mexico-town
Santa Ana.  It was an adventure.  Man.   There are some crazy people
out here!  We crossed paths of a few homeless people, one of which was
very old and wheeled around a stroller full of booze. Scary. We saw a
mexican drag queen. Also scary.  It was an adventure finding the store
and then getting out of there as fast as we could while making sure
our two very innocent, very asian friends didn't get lost or mangled.

I'm having a blast!  The two Elders who went English should return in
three weeks.  I am looking forward to things changing up around here
and hopefully having more opportunities to serve and bless the lives
of the Viet people here!

It sounds like everything is awesome at home.  It makes me miss it a
little bit, but it's great to know I don't need to worry about
anything.  You guys are awesome!

Love you!

Two pictures from our morning exercise.  We run to a park and meet up
as a district.  We can play basketball and run, do pushups, etc.  It
has been very cold lately.  We have what are called the "Santa Ana
Winds".  It's a cold wind from the SW ocean.  It has been in the 40's
lately.  We were freezing this morning so we were all bundled up.  It
was a lot darker than I remember it being.

The other picture is of me being goofy.  I made the sweatshirt and
thought I'd send a picture home.  That's me last night!




Elder Steele

P.S. Don't forget, Rosemary's birthday is on the 25th of this month.
Don't forget to wish her a happy birthday!

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

New Year, New Post.

1/7/13

Here is the weekly update:

We had a great week! There is a stigma throughout the mission that a
certain group of missionaries are really blessed.  They have an
amazing branch that really helps out with the missionary work.  Well,
we got to taste a little of that this last week because one of the
members of the Chinese branch referred us a friend of hers.  We now
have a great new investigator thanks to those missionaries and that
branch.

We taught some amazing lessons this last week, too.

We taught a lesson to one of our new investigators.  This lesson
talked about our nature as human beings.  We are here to be tested.
The investigator asked, what if it's like a test at school.  If you
had a better life, and got A's and B's, then you could only get worse.
 The member who was helping us with the lesson talked about how
everyone is getting a D or and F grade.  We cannot do better than
that.  There are a couple people who get the B grades, but most of us
are below a D.  God gives us tutors, like Prophets, to teach us how to
get better grades.  And He has one special Student who took the test
and scored a perfect A.  It's because of that "A" Grade that we can go
back and revise our answers.  We can fix the things that are wrong in
our lives and commit to do better.  Throughout this last week I have
had the Atonement on my mind.  It is the greatest gift in the world.
Our reception of it comes through our willingness to serve, love,
forgive, and obey.  Only the Savior could give us such an opportunity
because he is the only one to have passed the test.  He "took the
class" so that he could learn the information and know the answers.
We've got study groups, or families, to learn and grow and to support
each other.  We have the opportunity to ask the Teacher for help.

I thought it was a great analogy to show our relationship as Sons and
Daughters of our Heavenly Father.  We are students.  The Great
Professor wants us to become like him, to know what he knows.

Love you all!

Elder Steele







12/31/12

Hey family.  It was great to see all your smiling faces last week.
Sorry I didn't get to talk to all of you as much as I wanted.  Please
don't feel offended.  The internet connection at the church was pretty
poor.  Not to mention there were more than twenty of you.  Please know
I love all of you!

Give me a second while I go order food. :)

Some pretty awesome things happened this last week.  Only three things
really stick out, but they were pretty great.  Number one:  while we
were cleaning the church on Saturday with the Branch, an old
Citizenship class student walked up to one of the members who was
cleaning the outside windows and told him how she had been looking for
a church and she wants to join our church.  We will meet with her on
Wednesday.  It is so uncommon for people here to want to study/change
religion or even make religion a part of their lives and we were very
surprised about this.  It is all too common to hear what we heard
yesterday, the phrase "I have Buddha."  To the Vietnamese people we
meet: we know you probably "have Buddha" and we speak your language!
When we speak Vietnamese to you, don't respond in broken English that
you don't understand!  This happens almost every day.  Haha, anyway.

Number two:  Church yesterday was great.  Just like every week,
sacrament started about ten minutes late, and there were still people
sneaking in the door after the meeting started.  A few people came in
that we recognized.  A less active and her parents, a returned
missionary-BYU student and her fiancee.  But there was one girl that
we had never before seen.  After the meeting, the other elders talked
to her and brought her to Sunday School.  She came here from Viet Nam
2 months ago and was searching online for a local church that spoke
Vietnamese.  Giáo Hội Các Thánh Hữu Ngày Sau của Chúa Giê Su
Ky Tô came up as "recommended".  She showed up.  We were able to talk
to her a ton.  It was great.  She was thoroughly welcomed.  The
aforementioned couple welcomed her, talked to her about the Church and
the blessings from it in their lives.  It was awesome.  We will
probably be teaching her some time this week, too!  One part of that
was that in combined third hour, the teacher mentioned the Family: A
Proclamation to the World.  He pointed to the English one which hung
on the wall.  There wasn't a Vietnamese one, so Elder Woolsey and I
ran out to the hallway to grab the one that hung there.  We showed it
to the class, and then the teacher asked me to read it.  For the whole
class.  It was great Viet practice, reading something I'd never read
through all the way in Vietnamese in front of a good 25 Vietnamese
people.  Even better than me getting to read, though, was that Chi
Linh (her name is Linh) could hear the Church's (the Lord's intendid)
stand on families.  Something so strong about this Church is the
emphasis that is placed on families.  They are eternal.  Forever.
Never-ending.  The greatest joy that we can experience in this life is
with our families.  The eternal joy in Heaven comes because of
families.  I am so glad I have such a great family!  I hope you're
still doing FHE EVERY WEEK.  My spiritual foundation was formed in our
family.  I still remember lessons about saying "Gosh" instead of using
the Lord's Name in vain.  I remember learning about faith, and what a
testimony is.  I learned to sing great songs, like "Give, Said the
Little Stream" (we sang it almost every week! haha)  and to have
family prayer.  I learned to have "family council", where we would
plan out the weekly and daily events.  Daily planning (the 30 minutes
to plan for the next day held every night) is easy for me because of
this.  I remember Farkle, and Liar's Dice with the Missionaries.  We
would make treats for each other.  Every year in October we would plan
a night to carve pumpkins.  In November or December we would make
Ginger bread houses.  Savannah was always the best at carving and
making the ginger bread houses.  We would always make goofy faces on
the pumpkins and make our gingerbread houses to hold candy so we could
eat it after school.  These simple things prepared me to be where I am
right now.  Keep doing them because they are SO important!  The Church
has short videos which focus on this, titled "Moments that matter
most", Forgiveness, etc.  We are constantly reminded of the simple
truths of this life-  We are children of God, and he wants us to be
happy.  That happiness which He wants us to have is found in families.
 Anyway, it was good for her to hear the Proclamation to the World.
Will you read it this week?

http://www.lds.org/topics/family-proclamation?lang=eng

:)

Number three: real quick!  We had a dinner appointment with some
American ward members last night.  They had an awesome family and an
awesome home.  They exuded great spiritual capacity and were so
willing to give their time and efforts to the Lord.  It was awesome.
Just thought I'd let you know!  I had a great time and I felt their
love.

Love you all!  Have a great week!  For those of you reading through
the Book of Mormon with me, I am now in Mosiah 24~.  Catching up.

Elder Steele

Oh.  I was looking for things to do after planning finished every
night and on P-Day because we always do the same boring things and I
bought some fabric and hand-sewed a shirt.  It is not done all the way
yet but I will send you pictures when I am finished.

Tuesday, December 25, 2012

Past 4 Months...

Hey everyone, sorry for getting so far behind! Here are the emails from the past 4 months or so. We got to skype Elder Steele tonight and he is doing GREAT! 



December 24, 2012


‘And now it came to pass that after I, Nephi, had read these things which were engraven upon the plates of brass, my brethren came unto me and said unto me:  What meaneth these things which ye have read?  Behold, are they to be understood according to things which are spiritual, which shall come to pass according to the spirit and not the flesh?
And I, Nephi, said unto them:  Behold they were manifest unto the prophet by the voice of the spirit; for by the spirit are all things made known unto the prophets, which shall come upon the children of men according to the flesh.’ [1 Nephi 22:1-2]
For centuries the prophets had prophesied in great detail the birth of the promised Messiah.
 ‘But thou , Bethlehem Ephratah, though thou be little among the thousands of Judah, yet out of thee shall he come forth unto me that is to be ruler in Israel; whose goings forth have been from of old, from everlasting.’ [Micah 5:2]
‘Hath not the scriptures said, that Christ cometh of the seed of David, and out of the town of Bethlehem, where David was?’ [John 7:42]
Joseph and Mary understood the spirit of prophecy.  They understood that prophets speak, and we hear.  Then, with the help of the Lord, we work tirelessly to fulfill our part that prophecy might be fulfilled.
‘But Bethlehem, more than eighty dusty, dreary miles away, was the destined place for the birth of the great Deliverer.  So it was written by the prophets; so it must be.  Out of this small place, insignificant among the villages of Judea, must come Him whose going forth have been from of old from everlasting.  Mary knew this and Joseph knew it; both had seen the angel…..They must go to Bethlehem and there attend to the coming forth of a Son, lest any of the Messianic prophecies, by so much as a hair’s breadth should fail.
They went to Bethlehem because they had no choice; Caesar had spoken, and Herod was echoing the word.  But this was only the occasion, the vehicle, the excuse, as it were.  They would have moved heaven and earth, if need be, to place themselves in the City of David when the hour arrived for the coming of the Son of David.  We cannot suppose that a considerate and loving husband, having a wife big with child, would cause her to walk, or ride a slow stepping donkey, or traverse in any manner the dusty roads of Palestine, camping out overnight as they traveled – all as the hour of her confinement approached—unless there was a reason.  Joseph and Mary were going to Bethlehem for a purpose.  It was the one and only place where the Messiah could be born, and we cannot but suppose that they knew it and acted wittingly.’ [The Mortal Messiah, Book 1, by Bruce R. McConkie pgs. 340 and 341]’
Do we understand the spirit of prophecy as Mary and Joseph understood?


With all things, in all our work, our focus should be on supporting and sustaining the "work and glory" which is the Lord's goal of bringing Eternal Families Home to Him.

Through this Christmas Season and as we carry on after, we should all do our best to support our families, to love one another, and to serve our Father's precious children to fulfill the mission and life of the Savior and to invite others to feel the Love which the Gospel brings.

I love you all!

Elder Steele






December 17, 2012


Well this last week was pretty boring.  We didn't do a lot of missionary work.  ie, there were a lot of meetings and class, and more meetings.  Thursday we had a big Asian Zone meeting.  The Mandarin, Korean, and Vietnamese Elders all met at the Mission Home with President and Sister Bowen to discuss the methods we use for finding and working with members.  President told us at that meeting that there would be some surprises coming up.  Well.  That night, the Assistants called missionaries to let them know if they received any leadership assignments.  Two elders in our District (Elders Leonard and Wadsworth) were called as Zone Leaders, which means our district is once again down to 4 elders.  Everyone knew Elder Leonard was going English, but it was a surprise to have two elders go.  I am staying with Elder Woolsey.  That's almost a bigger shock, because it means the native Vietnamese elder who just finished being trained will complete the training for elder Anderson.  Elder Anderson's Vietnamese ability will shoot through the roof.  It will be good for us.
 
Besides that, we have a Christmas party coming up for the English Class students.  We are going to be singing Christmas songs and reading through the story of the Savior's birth in Vietnamese.  I hope it goes well.  We are always looking for Vietnamese people to teach. 
 
Here's the story of the Savior's birth.  May we all try our best to embrace and share His love and charity as we go through this Christmas season.
 
And it came to pass in those days, that there went out a decree from Cæsar Augustus, that all athe world should be btaxed. 2 (And this ataxing was first made when Cyrenius was governor of Syria.)
 3 And all went to be taxed, every one into his own city.
 4 And Joseph also went up from Galilee, out of the city of Nazareth, into Judæa, unto the city of David, which is calledaBethlehem; (because he was of the house and lineage of David:)
 5 To be taxed with Mary his aespoused wife, being great with child.
 6 And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered.
 7 And she brought forth her afirstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the binn.
 8 And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.
 9 And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the aglory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.
 10 And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you agood tidings of great bjoy, which shall be to all people.
 11 For unto you is aborn this day in the city of David a bSaviour, which is Christ the cLord.
 12 And this shall be a asign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.
 13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God, and saying,
 14 aGlory to God in the highest, and on earth bpeace, good will toward men.
 15 And it came to pass, as the angels were gone away from them into heaven, the shepherds said one to another, Let us now go even unto Bethlehem, and see this thing which is come to pass, which the Lord hath made known unto us.
 16 And they came with ahaste, and found Mary, and Joseph, and the babe lying in a manger.
 17 And when they had seen it, they made known abroad the saying which was told them concerning this child.
 18 And all they that heard it awondered at those things which were told them by the shepherds.
 19 But Mary kept all these things, and apondered them in her heart.
 20 And the shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things that they had heard and seen, as it was told unto them.
 21 And ... his name was called bJesus, which was so cnamed of the angel before he was conceived in the womb.


Love you all!  I have been reading through the Book Of Mormon still.  I am in Mosiah 5.  Keep reading every day!

P.S.  I will email you all next Monday, but please make sure everyone is there on Tuesday.  They will allow us to Skype for probably 30-45 minutes.  It will be a good opportunity to say hello to everyone.  Please do not exclude anyone.  I expect to see Matt, Erin, Zac, Sarah, Savannah, Brandon, Liz, Jesse, Jon, Rose, Hunter, Santy, and Madison, and also Mom and Dad and Grandmas and Grandpas, too, if that would work.

Keep in mind that all I would ask for for Christmas is that pair of shoes and the small study journal binder from Deseret book.  I have a huge thing full of candy that I got in packages, etc.  Love you all!

Elder Steele






December 10, 2012

Thưa gia đình ơi!

This past week has been great.  About the same as last week.  It went by super quick.  Here's a rundown:

Monday: We played dodgeball. Again.  This is the only P-day activity we've done since I've been here.  This will change in the next few weeks, hopefully.  We also had an FHE with the usual monday night crowd.  They are awesome.  From them I have learned that family home evening is an inspired program and by obeying the instruction from the 12 Apostles and having time set aside weekly for EVERY family member to be there families are blessed greatly!  There are no greater blessings in this life than family.

Tuesday:  We changed our approach a little bit to see if people were home earlier in the day.  It turns out not too many people are home at 11.  We had our weekly English Class Coordination Meeting as a district.  We planned a party for the English Class students to help them understand the real meaning behind Christmas.

Wednesday:  Wednesday was exchanges.  I went with Elder Anderson (the newest Việt elder).  I was senior companion for a day.  Things are a little different when you have no one to look to for interpretation and I had to step up a lot with the language.  If you think talking to toothless people in English is hard, try it in Vietnamese hahaha.  We taught a lesson to a less active man with many missing teeth.  It was an hour-long guessing game of what he was trying to say.  Regardless, we still felt the spirit and I believe we all left better people.

Thursday:  Thursdays are always spent in fancy-town Irvine.  It's like Pittsford on steroids.  If you do research on it, you'll find out that Irvine is a company called the Irvine Company. A wealthy man purchased all the land in an area and leased out portions of land for homes.  Because of this, they are able to maintain stricter standards of living for the inhabitants.  It is kind of like Communism, but you still have more rights.  No one owns land there.  Anyway.  Irvine is really nice.  We have a weekly district meeting there and a Zone training meeting once a month.  This past thursday was Zone training.  We received training on making each contact more direct and spirit-driven.  To accomplish this, we were invited to memorize scriptures and share them with those that we meet.  Elder Woolsey and I have been trying to memorize scriptures in Vietnamese and quiz each other on them throughout the day.  It is an effective way to memorize them.  I got the package from Mathieu and Erin and Grandma.  Thanks a ton!  I now have plenty of cadbury chocolates and Christmas candy, etc.  You guys are the best.  :)  I hung up the pictures from Ella and Delainey!  Thanks!

Friday:  Friday was spent searching in Santa Ana for less active members.  We went with the Branch Mission Leader to find a few less actives and fellowship them.  No one was home so we spent a few hours in Mexico-town looking for the few and far-between Vietnamese people.

Saturday:  We labeled Saturday as free-food day.  We had the assignment to clean the church with the Branch on Saturday morning.  After that, the 1st counselor took us out to eat Phở.  We had studies and class, and then our Zone leader visiting on exchanges bought us pizza for lunch (he serves in English and gets fed every day).  We went to visit a recent convert to share a lesson with her, which meeting ended up changing locations to another ward's social with the recent convert's daughter's family.  We were able to get food there and teach the intended lesson.

Sunday:  Church.  Lesson with some now-former investigators.  Nothing new.

We're heading up to SpyGlass Hill Park today in NewPort Beach to take some district pictures.  We are making a christmas card for the students and family (hopefully!) before things change in the district.

I have continued my daily reading in the Book of Mormon.  It's pretty awesome.  I'm at Jacob 5.  Wish me luck with the chapter haha.

Love you!

Elder Steele







December 3, 2012


Thưa ba mẹ và các anh chị em ơi!
How are you all?  This past week has been great for me.  Mcdonald’s today was even good.  We got to talk to some guy about his beliefs and met a member that talked to us for a while about what is important to him.  It just goes to show that sometimes there are crazy homeless people here but there are some sane people that want to have beneficial discussion.
I have been continuing my studies in the Book of Mormon.  Jon is trying to catch up to me, but he might slingshot past me and beat me through the book.  I found a line in it that is small and probably easily overlooked.  Nephi writes, “upon these things I write the things of my soul…”  The things Nephi shares are the things that are of the utmost importance to him. He talks about keeping his family unified when Sariah complains.  He talks about following the commandments when his brothers disobey and murmur.  Nephi has a very different perspective on things because he 1) was the Prophet’s son, and 2) was the next prophet.  I was looking for things that are of this matter, things “of the soul”.  One of the books on my desk is titled “Our Search for Happiness”.  How appropriate.  I think that fits the bill perfectly.  I read the book once on the plane on the way to the MTC, but never touched it again.  I was a little nervous and out of it on my way to Utah, too, so I figured I’d have to re-read it and actually see the process involved in our (everyone’s) search for and eventually finding true happiness.  Go figure, Elder Ballard focuses on the same thing Nephi focused on and the same thing almost all of the prophets have and do still focus on.  Family.  Obedience.  Faith.  Some quick, but IMPORTANT themes I pulled from “Our Search for Happiness”  ((I read about half of it the other night, so I’m not done yet)) are that sometimes we lose faith.  Our faith weakens.  We have less of a desire to act according to the will of God and less of a desire to do things that he would have us do.  Sometimes bad things happen, and we have to do our best to fix them and make them better, even when we’re doing our best.  We can repent and change (no one is perfect.  And everyone has to change, ie. Repent) .  Heavenly Father sent His Son to the World so that Jesus Christ could understand us and understand ALL the pains that we go through and the things that trouble us.  This act, the Atonement, allows us to repent, to forgive others, and to have our pain swallowed up in the Savior.  I love my awesome family.  You guys are the best!  Use this opportunity to repent!  It’s never too late to FIX something in this life.  I made a small list of things that I’ve learned in the last 6 months that are the most important to us:
Family prayer.  The Lord commands us in 3 Nephi 18:21, “Pray in your families that your wives and your children may be blessed.”  Pray with your family and have weekly family home evening.
Unity in our relationships with others.  Having a companion can be pretty difficult sometimes, regardless of whether they’re great or not-so-great.  The instruction for this is found in Alma 30-something.  Ammon and Alma teach us about having patience, being longsuffering and serving others, even if it means serving others without a physical reward.  The Lord will bless us as we do this, so much more than we can imagine.
Go to the Temple.  Make the temple an important part of our lives.  Develop a schedule to go regularly and go with your loved ones.  Those of you that are married, schedule a time to go with your spouse and let them know that you love them.  You will be happier.  I promise you this.  Your families will be happier, too.  Heavenly father gives us these opportunities to serve Him so that he can bless us.

I love you all!  I promise you that those three things will help us so much in your/our lives.  Make these things a priority.  Make your family a priority.  Serve others, too.

Thanks for your great examples!

Elder Steele







November 26, 2012


Gia đình và các bạn bè đều Ơi!
Hey!  Let me give you a rundown of this past week.  It wasn’t too busy.  Thanksgiving changed things up a bit for us.
Monday.  Preparation day. Pretty bình thường.  We went up to Deseret Book to see if we needed anything there.  I might get a study journal from there to help me with the Vietnamese and I’ll also be doing some organized studies by topic.  Deseret Book has some nifty small 3-ring binders that use small paper.  Our appointment fell through, so we went to our favorite boba place as a district.
Tuesday.  Tuesday was a pretty average day.  We contacted a past English class student to see how he was doing.  His name is David.  David is a 13 year old boy who lives with his Grandmother.  We talked to him and set up times to teach him English and to get to know him.
Wednesday.  Wednesday was exchanges with Elder Leonard, my previous companion.  It was a blast.  We had a very full day.  Eight hours of knocking on doors.  A big ZERO success.  But it was still okay.  Elder Leonard gave me some advice on how I can improve in how I prepare for the day and how I can be more successful.  An English class student took us out to lunch for Elder Wadsworth’s birthday.  She gave him a cake decorated with, “Happy Wadsworth’s Birthday!”  It was pretty classically hilarious.  Things like that happen all the time.  (Last week I was teaching English class, and I asked the students, “How many hands does a dog have?”  They all responded almost simultaneously, “No!”).  Zero and No are the same in Vietnamese.
Thursday.  Thursday was Thanksgiving.  We had district meeting in the morning until 2 o’clock.  We met with some members to record some Vietnamese to help us learn, and then we had our Thanksgiving appointment about 25 minutes away in Irvine with some very Americanized Viets.  Vietnamese people don’t know what thanksgiving is.  Close to none of them celebrate it.  Our dinner was a good mix of Vietnamese food and traditional American Thanksgiving dishes.  There were about 30 people there, a lot of them were completely Viet relatives that don’t know English.  Conversation was good.  We were asked a Vietnamese “play on words”/ joke.  Of all the animals in the world, which can you not eat?  The answer was “a screw”.  Needless to say, none of the Vietnamese people knew the answer either.
Friday.  Black Friday.  We taught a lesson about Christ healing the 10 lepers.  Only one said thanks.  Even though he was a Samaritan “rival of the Jews”, he was blessed by the Savior.  Gratitude is great.
Saturday.  Saturday we went to dinner at a members home, it was an open house for one of the members who leaves tomorrow for his mission.  It was pretty fun.
Sunday.  Sunday was pretty normal.  Church was good.  We reviewed a talk from Elder Anderson where he encouraged boys to grow up and become men, and encouraged men to be better fathers, husbands, and providers.  I have some good goals for after serving a mission that follow his counsel.
Elder Woolsey (He is my companion, dad…) and I are struggling to find people to teach.  I hope and pray that the work picks up.
We had an interesting experience yesterday.  I’ll share with you what I wrote in my journal.  “Today Elder Woolsey and I had a different experience.  We were trying to contact a former investigator.  We could not find a place to park, so we decided we’d contact someone else.  On the way there, we both changed our minds to return to the original plan.  We parked a ways away and set out to walk toward the apartment complex.  As we were walking, a small, modest car pulled up next to us and in broken English the driver called us to get in.  Very puzzled, we approached the car.  He showed us a copy of the Book of Mormon.  It was in English and we knew he couldn’t read it.  He spoke Spanish.  Continuing in Spanish we gathered that he wanted to drive us somewhere.  We were confused.  We tried to call some Spanish Elders but they couldn’t be reached.  I thought for sure that he was trying to return the Book of Mormon or maybe wanted a Spanish copy.  I was still confused and a little frightened that he kept inviting us into his car.  As we were about to give up, he pulled a little card out of his wallet.  It was his temple recommend.  I was struck by the fact that some man I didn’t know would pull up next to me and offer help.  And I was struck by the spirit which bore witness to me that this humble man was an honest man who was worthy to enter the House of the Lord.  I did not understand but two words he said (Amigo.  Casa.), but I knew who this man was and I knew exactly how he lives his life…”  I closed my night asking myself, “Am I doing enough?  How do I know when I’m doing enough?”, because when I try my hardest I don’t always see results.  I reflected on this experience.  This man did not have a lot of worldly possessions.  By most standards, he appeared to be getting by.  But I ask, ‘Is he doing enough?’  The answer to me was clear.  He was.  He is.  A humble man that has his priorities straight is doing enough.  His first instinct was to serve.  He wanted to help us.  Even though we didn’t need help, he offered it.  While he couldn’t help us directly, I walked away a greater desire to live worthy of the blessings which Heavenly Father promises us and a desire to serve.  What a great example we can follow.

I love you all!  Christmas is in a few weeks.  It’ll be here sooner than we know.  I’m sure I’ll get to talk to you about the Skype/phone situation before too soon.

Elder Steele
(Don’t forget Country Sweet!   :)







November 19, 2012

Five sent me a few pictures.  It looks like they had a lot of success the first few days.  Nice shot, Hunter!!! Things here are great.  Khang and Phượng were confirmed yesterday.  It was awesome.  We are struggling to find people to teach.  We have some ideas to change our English class a little so we can share Gospel principles in class.  We will use Mormon Messages.  They're a great resource that the church puts out and the movies are coming out in better and better quality.

This Thursday is Turkey day.  And the day after is Madison's birthday.  (Happy Birthday Maddi! Love ya!)  An interesting perspective, my companion and I were discussing the basic things we have and how much we take them for granted.  I guess there's some crazy explosives going off in the Gaza strip.  I'm glad we don't have to worry about that here.  Outside of Walmart this morning was a homeless man riding his bike past the store.  He had long, unkempt hair and a rough beard.  His life was very obviously affected by drugs and alcohol.  He looked sad.  I felt bad for him.  We don't have the negative influence of drugs, alcohol, or abuse.  We've got families that love us.  Life is good.  Alma 34:38; and Alma 37:37.  Are we in a routine of giving thanks to others for the things we have?  Do we give thanks to God enough?  It doesn't take a "season of thanks" to give thanks or a "season of giving" to give to others.  I think Thanksgiving is simply a reminder or a pick-me-up to bring us up to a level of gratitude we should be giving.  If we maintain an "attitude of gratitude" we will see everything in a different light.  Our lives are so much better than they could be.  If you're reading this, you probably have a computer.  You probably live in an environment where you don't constantly worry about that computer being stolen.

As a missionary, there are a lot of things that I don't have.  I don't have a microwave in my apartment.  We don't have personal phones.  I can't go on facebook.  We can't stay up past 10:30.  We can't sleep in past 6:30.  It's really easy to see these as things that we don't have, things that we can't do.  Restrictions.  But we have so much.  We have the Gospel of Jesus Christ.  We have a Heavenly Father that loves us.  We have families and friends.  We have direction.






November 5, 2012


Hello Family!
 
I heard all about the storm.  I guess NYC and the East Coast got wrecked pretty hard.  I hope you’re all doing well. 

We have some great things lined up for this next week.  Today is P-day.  We went shopping already.  I got some cereal, chicken nuggets, and some things to make a pumpkin pie.  I don’t know what we do for Thanksgiving, but I figured I’d make a pie.  It’s a pretty American thing to do.  We’re going to try to have a family home evening with Phuong and her family today.  Things are moving fast in that family.  Her son, Long, goes into the MTC on the 28th of this month.  She will be baptized next Sunday!  It’s pretty exciting.  We plan to meet with her twice this week to review some important things (ie. Enduring to the End, follow the prophet, van van…) She is really prepared to be baptized.  We are praying that she will invite her husband to prepare to be baptized soon, too.  This coming Tuesday (tomorrow) one of the old missionaries, Elder Jones is going to take us out to lunch.  He was in the Vietnamese program for two weeks with me and then served English for his last transfer.  He’s been home for a couple months now.  Wednesday is a normal Wednesday.  Thursday, though, should be great.  We have a non-scheduled zone conference with Erich Kopischke from the Seventy.  I’m really looking forward to it.  It’s supposed to be great!  I think he’s been going around to different missions and talking to the missionaries around the world.  In the last Ensign (or at least the last Vietnamese Liahona) it said something about Elder Kopischke going to Germany and explaining the traditional family to a board which represented all of Europe.  We don’t usually get GA’s here.  Actually, David A. Bednar came here a few months before I got here, but it’s not too typical.

                The past week has been pretty great.  We’re teaching English to a couple in a part-member family.  Our goal is to develop a relationship with the husband so we can teach him.  They’re awesome.  Khang is in a different area now, but he will also be baptized on this next Sunday.  Things are really going great.

                We were told not to go knocking on Halloween, but to be creative or plan for the next week.  Hm.  We tried to be creative.  We went to a member’s house intending to play games with them for a little while.  This was allowed.  We got there and set up (we have the “Pokemon Board Game” haha), but after we set up all the kids went out trick-or-treating.  They literally left us alone in their house with instructions to hand out candy.  Well.  We did for a little while until one of the kids’ dad came back and took over.  We went over to the cousin’s house across the street and played a couple of games.  The kids came back before too long.  It didn’t end up being too bad.  I just couldn’t believe they left us!

                Elder Woolsey was sick yesterday.  We were both excited to sleep in an extra hour with Daylight Savings, but I woke up around 5 to his unpleasant groans and loud hurling.  I went a little crazy being stuck in the apartment all day, but it wasn’t too bad.  I read through the Liahona and some Preach My Gospel.  Elder Woolsey had me call Sister Bowen, and she told us the ox was in the mire enough that we should go get medicine and some Sprite to help his stomach.  I felt weird going into Walmart in a shirt and tie with Elder Woolsey walking beside me in a sweater, sweatpants, wrapped in a blanket and carrying a pot in case he threw up.  He bought $28 worth of soda and meds.  It was pretty funny.

Last Tuesday was a pretty crazy day, too.  We got the new Viet Elder, Elder Anderson.  We were supposed to all go down to the Airport with President Bowen in the Mission Van, but things changed a little bit and we didn't get to go!  We were all bummed about that.  Things changed up a lot, though, as Elder Woolsey and moved out to a new apartment and Elder Anderson ( Kiên) moved in with Elder Leonard.  Time is flying fast.  It is almost Christmas.  I should have some great pictures for you for next week!

On both Thursday and Saturday for English class we had our regular 6-week Evaluation Night.  We played two review games with the students.  It's hard to find games that are both entertaining and help the students learn and review, so if you know any ESL learning games, please share them!  I can receive e-mails from anyone!  I can only send them to my family, though.  We played Spell Factor, which is a wager style game designed to test the students' spelling and translation abilities.  We had to call the students out a few times for cheating, because we have a lot of different skill levels in class, and they can't resist shouting out answers.  It's funny.  We even had our 91 year old student playing games.  I'm surprised she can get around as well as she does.

Love you all!

Elder Steele







October 29, 2012
I am feeling much better.  A cold virus swept through the district, but we are all doing well now.  The worst that hit me was the sore throat, stuffy nose and headaches.

It sounds like there is a big storm moving in.  I hope you all read my email a couple weeks ago about preparedness... And I hope you're all safe.

California driving is crazy.  We were on our way to an appointment yesterday and I almost got hit.  We're constantly fighting traffic.  I'm perfecting my parallel park, though.  The appointment went great.  We have a few people that we're currently teaching.  Khang is a laid-back college student from Vietnam.  He's goofy, but great.  The last lesson we taught him he pulled out his taser so we could see it.  Around my first week here the young men went on a camp out to Yosemite park in the mountains, and Khang went, too.  He didn't want to go, though, unless he had a taser to defend himself from the bears.  This resulted in a $10 taser from ebay.  I think he was shocked to find there really aren't many bears in Yosemite.  It's a cool novelty item nonetheless.  We taught him a lesson about the importance of daily prayer, obeying the law, and following the Prophet.  He's awesome-- he will be baptized on November 11 with our other investigator, Phuong.  Phuong has two children that are members.  One of them, whose name is Long is about to go on a mission to Guam.  She is motivated by his decision to leave and his great example.

We will get ANOTHER missionary in the Vietnamese program tomorrow.  That means I've been here in California for 13 weeks already.  It also means that starting tomorrow I'll be companions with Elder Woolsey (I met him when he was in the MTC).  He's currently my companion, but we won't be in a trio any longer.  It's kind of funny how different things are for me than for all other missionaries.  In the Viet program, we know who our companions are well in advance. Elder Leonard will go English in 6 weeks right before Christmas, just for a transfer.  Christmas is right around the corner, btw.  But that means that Elder Woolsey and I will co-train Elder Anderson.

News from Dad sounds great.  I would buy a copy of the book!  Liz and Jesse- It's cool you're moving back to Bloomfield.  Happy birthday Liz!  On November 1.  Love you!

Love you all!

Stay safe!

Elder Steele










October 24, 2012

I don't have a lot of news today.  Things are still great.  I am a little sick, I have a sore throat and have been feeling kind of out of it.  Hopefully I have more for next week.  I love you all.  This Church is true.

Elder Steele

P.S. the pictures-- 1) We found a banana tree.  2)  We had some Viet-made Thai food.  It was an egg noodle soup with crab, squid, clam, tofu, and beef.  It was pretty good.  The egg in the Chopsticks is a quail egg.  Quail don't run very fast so I'm sure the eggs are easy to steal.  3)  On the left is Khang, our investigator, and on the right is Elder Ninh.  At a family's monday night family home evening.










October 15, 2012

Time is flying by here.  We really had a great week this last week.  It was great to meet some of our "higher" weekly goals.  We have a new investigator who has really helped me see life in a different light.  I am always looking for things to learn here, life lessons, and v v. We visited a referral from some Spanish speaking elders in south coast.  We knocked the door once, and no one was home.  The next day we tried to visit him again.  After a little hectic knocking, hectic in that it was in Vietnamese with a few surprise English-speaking Viets and I seem to have forgotten how to talk to real people in English, we ended up at Phat's house.  It was my turn to give the "approach".  I was a little nervous but knocked without hesitation anyway.  I introduced myself and shared that we were ba nguoi truyen giao tu Giao Hoi Cac Thanh Huu Ngay Sau cua Chua Gie Su Ky To hay la Giao Hoi Mac Mon.  I told him how we shared a message explaining where we came from, our purpose for life and where we are going after this life and that we had a record of the ancient Americans which had these teachings.  When I invited him to hear more about this message, he simply stood there nodding his head.  I convinced myself that he didn't understand because I really don't have a good grasp of Vietnamese yet.  People are out there looking for a purpose and a reason for living and they're not all "all set".  This really isn't what I learned, though.  When we met with him, he told us that he thought this life was a punishment for some sort of past life and that we weren't meant to experience joy here.  How many people are really lost in misbelief?  We shared the message of the Plan of Salvation, giving him the answers to the questions of life.  Why are we here?  Where do we come from?  Where do we go after this life?  We will teach him again next week.

Saturday night was the parent/adult meeting for stake conference.  While we weren't able to stay for all of it, the talks we heard had an overall theme of "Family Preparedness".  Number 1 was spiritual preparedness.  Families need to be strong.  The spiritual strength needed doesn't really come from our jobs, our vacations, or the big things that happen.  It comes from the small things we do.  The habits we have are very important for giving our families spiritual strength.  When families eat together, the thing children want to have most is time with their parents.  Develop a habit of eating together with your families.  If you have time off for lunch, eat with your spouse.  Show them you care about them.  As you become closer as a family, the spirit will be more present in the home.  Pray together.  Establish and continue a habit of praying with each other.  Study together. Study scriptures together.  You will be stronger and more capable as a parent and as a family.  Where are our priorities?  What are our real goals in life?  No one looks back at the end of life and says, "I wish I had spent more time with my job."  Spend time with your spouse.  Number 2 was financial preparedness.  Stay out of debt.  If you're in it, get out as soon as you can.  The analogy used compared interest to a working man.  It never stops, works on holidays, through the night, in emergencies, in crisis, when there's a death in the family, when the car breaks down ,etc.  It never gets tired and never slows down.  Get out of debt.   And number 3 was emergency preparedness.  Have food storage, especially water.  Prepare for the worst, and you'll be fine through the best.  Do you have 72-hour kits?

Well, I don't have a lot of time left.  A quick funny story- Khang came to church on sunday for Stake Conference and one of the speakers was in young women's, probaby 16 or so.  I'm sure she was really nervous because it's really scary to speak in front of a thousand people.  She was speaking really fast and Khang leaned over and said, "it is like she is a rapper or something, she is speaking so fast!"  It gave us a quick laugh.

I love you all!  Thanks for your support!

Elder Steele








October 8, 2012













October 1, 2012
Happy Birthday Ella!  :)  Love you!

These get forwarded to all the Steele's, right?  I haven't heard anything from Logan or Kaylee in a while.  They are allowed to e-mail me because they're part of my direct family.  I don't have grandma's email address, either.

I like getting on and chatting with Rosie and Jonathan.  Good stuff.

So, things here are great.  I think I usually say that, but really, they're pretty great.  I've been told my e-mails are a little dry and boring. Sorry about that!  Here's to trying to improve them.

Last thursday was our usual district meeting.  We have them in Irvine with our Zone, so they're about a half hour drive from our apartment.  Just like with any week, we went to the Taco Bell KFC afterwards.  I even had the usual two-dollar meal deal, which, really, is beginning to be quite boring.  The meal deals are all right because you get a beverage with it.  4 Diet Pepsis later we were on our way home.  Half way home I really really had to pee.  On a scale of one-to-having-gone-already I was an "almost".  A little while further, Elder Leonard told me he also needed to pee, pretty badly.  In the last mile, I started laughing uncontrollably at how bad I really needed to go.  Elder Leonard also laughed.  I couldn't control it after that, because his laugh was more of crazy noises trying to contain himself.  Both of us were really pushed to the limit, to the point where I was yelling at the gate to open and could barely park the car.  We both made it.  But it was really close.

Another great thing.  Yesterday in church, one of the youth got up to share how he got his mission call to Guam and how he's pretty excited about that.  On his way to his seat someone just shouted out "What language do they speak?!" really loud in the middle of the meeting.  Things like that are generally accepted here.  It was hard to control my laughter.  Oops.

We still get a lot of questions about Mitt Romney.  We still get a lot of weird looks all the time, because, I guess missionaries aren't generally accepted in the United States?  It's a little different than normal.

Gotta go!  Love you all!

Elder Steele







September 24, 2012

In English, the week before.  So, I've been contemplating what to share in this email for a little while.  I never really know what to say, and I don't know what everyone wants to hear.  First, thanks for the packages!  Grandma & Grandpa, Matt & Erin &&& Ella, Delainey, Sicily, and Mom & Dad.  Everything is great.  I found the Hootennanie recipe and made those last week and they were pretty good.  Not as good as Dad makes them, though.  I've eaten over half the granola from Gram and Gramps already, and some of the Smarties and Chips and Oreos.  Thanks a bunch! :)  It really is great to get mail every week.  All the other missionaries get jealous because they can't get their friends and family to write them as much.  It is what it is.

We're in McDonald's right now, using their free wi-fi.  The Vietnamese program has laptops.  It's pretty great as we're probably some of the only missionaries in the world with laptops, quite literally.  But this McDonald's has Halloween decorations all over.  I can't believe I left in May and it's already almost October, soon to be Halloween.  This past week went by SO fast.  As they say in Brazil, "Everything was great this week.  About the same as last week."

So a few things from this past week...  Yesterday was a pretty good day.  We had branch conference and a lot of the Stake leaders taught.  An important thing that the Stake President talked about was in the Bible, I think in Peter, about the parable of the Lost Sheep.  He said, to paraphrase, when the Shepherd went to recover the lost sheep, he didn't send him a text message.  He left the ninety and nine and personally found the one lost sheep.  And then he lifted it on his shoulders and used his full strength to bring him back to the fold.  How often are we the people to help others in need?  Dieter F. Uchtdorf shared that most often, the people we interact with are people in need.  This is very true.  Without being offensive, we need to serve others.  As we lift the burdens of others, our attitudes will improve.  It was in His time of need that Christ turned outward and served others.  In our time of need, and especially when we are not in need, we should be serving others.  Losing focus of what we ourselves need and turning that focus to others will bring joy into our lives.  As a missionary, I see this every day.

Yesterday Elder Leonard and I went to visit a referral from a few weeks ago to follow up with him.  He surprisingly let us into his home.  His wife was just finishing a Buddhist worship which was very different from any practice I have ever seen, but that has no significance.  The man, named Sanh, had a lot of questions for us which we were willing to answer.  We taught him about the importance of families, and how we can strengthen our families by coming closer to Christ and living His Gospel.  It was a great appointment.  I wasn't able to contribute a lot, but I said as much as I could in Vietnamese.

K, I have four new inboxes, so I'll read those and reply to Five and Rosie and whoever else.  Don't have a lot of time left.

Love you all!

Elder Steele







September 17, 2012

Friday morning after doing our studies, Elder Leonard and I left the apartment to go to the car.  We park the car in the carport every night, but it's still quite out in the open.  I went to unlock the door as I usually do and I noticed broken glass on the ground.  It was good that it wasn't from our car, at least that's what I thought.  I looked over and noticed the small back panel window had been smashed some time the night before.  Dang.  Elder Leonard and Elder Wadsworth had their GPSs in the car and they were both stolen.  Whoever the thief was also took my $12 sunglasses and a lot of our time on Friday and Saturday.  Friday temperatures were around 105 down here.  The hottest it has been since I've been down here.  We were in the mission office doing paperwork and cleaning up glass.  We spent a lot of time inside studying Saturday waiting for the Safelite repair man.  It was a little crazy, and I don't trust people as much here anymore.  Oh well.

The last week has been pretty crazy, but great at the same time.  Tuesdays were exchanges.  One of the Zone leaders switched with me and went with Elder Leonard for the day.  I went to Irvine with the other Zone leader. We had a busy schedule for the day, but it was great.  We taught a few lessons and even had a real dinner appointment!  It was interesting.  The people whose house we ate at had a picture on their frigde of their son and his comp. in the MTC--The comp was Sean's friend from Ohio.  As we were talking we figured out that the lady was from Brigham City, Utah and is a couple years older than mom.  She gave me some info to send to mom--I guess she knew Grandpa Dee and remembers grandma Judy.  I don't know if mom knew her but I'll send that to mom.  It was kind of a neat find.  It's a pretty small world.

Thursday was Zone conference.  It was great to hear from President Bowen and to finally hear one of his stories.  He talked about how the Holy Ghost works and how it can be a comforter to us.  On his mission he was traveling back from a zone meeting, where he left around 1 am.  After driving for a while (on a northern Canada backroad) he let his companion drive and went to sleep.  He woke up to his companion screaming as the car was gliding across the black ice at 60 miles per hour.  When his companion tried to fix the mistake, he turned the wrong way.  President Bowen tearfully recounted how the vehicle flipped once, then twice, and another time until they landed upside down, pinched between two large boulders.  He said they hung there in their seatbelts, unable to kick or elbow any windows, stuck.  "Here we were, just hanging upside down, praying for help," he said.  In this time, on a small backroad in Northern Canada, two 20-year old boys were trapped in a car, waiting for their frozen end.  Physically unable to do anything but pray, Elder Bowen and his companion felt comforted by the spirit and felt reassured that everything would be okay.  After over an hour of waiting, a car approached and was able to save their lives.  The trust that he had in the Lord to provide comfort and safety are remarkable.  As we as missionaries and everyone else as children of our Heavenly Father, we are being watched after.  He wants us to trust Him.

It sounds like everyone is doing well!  I'll be working on more letters to send out today!  Love you all!  Thanks for your love and support :)

Elder Steele






September 10, 2012

Thanks for the e-mail.  How is everything else at home?  It doesn't feel like it's been a week yet, but I'm here emailing again.  Mom--Thanks for the salt and vinegar chips and oreos!  Dad said you sent them through Matt and Erin.  Thanks!  Things here have been pretty slow this past week.  We are always pretty busy with the two english classes and the citizenship class we teach.  On top of that we had a big Asian Zone meeting with President Bowen and the Mandarin and Korean districts.  We got approval to try some new finding techniques in the Long Beach mission area.  Most of the Vietnamese people are right in Garden Grove and Westminster, but there are a lot more spread out everywhere.  It is funny hearing them talk when they don't think we know Vietnamese.  Well, I don't know Vietnamese so that's a good assumption haha, but Elder Leonard and the other elders know it alright.  We were discussing the difference between learning Spanish (or Mexican, as the Viets call it) and Vietnamese.  We decided that the Spanish speaking missionaries learn in 6 months what we learn in a year and a half.  It's crazy (loco).  Yesterday I gave a talk in Church.  There were probably 30 people there, but I was still really nervous.  I had to write it all out in English and then translate to Vietnamese.  And then I talked for ~17 minutes in both languages.  You really have to simplify everything for the branch.  Elder Wadsworth said that they've "probably heard of Joseph Smith before"... It's sad but kind of true.

Last night we went to a part member family's home for one of the member's birthdays.  We talked to our investigator there.  It was a good experience.  They are all about the food... They had Vermicelli with fatty pork and fish sauce, egg rolls, fish-eye vegetable drink, and durian flavored cake.  Durian is the fruit that is banned from public transportation because of the smell.  It was fun regardless.  Every P-day we have an activity at the church.  We play dodgeball and basketball with the members and some young English class students.  Our english class student is bringing two friends today.  It is great exposure for us because the YM president comes (speaks fluent Viet-- he served in Melbourne speaking Viet and now operates hotels in Vietnam with his wife for half the year)  and invites the kids to Young Mens and scouts.  They love it.  They're really fun to play with and we usually have about 10 people.  We play for a couple hours and then our p-day is over.  We always get worn out because of it but it's great exercise.  It's also the reason I haven't been able to write a lot of letters home or to everyone who has been writing me.  I will get some more letters sent out today.  Elders Cook and Smith wrote me last week.  It was great to hear from them.  They are probably fluent in Spanish already.

I will attach some pictures.  Love you!

Elder Steele